If ending screen time feels like the hardest part of your day, you’re not alone.
Many parents aren’t worried because their child enjoys technology. They’re worried because screens seem to make everything else harder. Homework takes longer. Bedtime becomes a negotiation. Family conversations get interrupted. Even asking a child to put a device away can lead to tears, bargaining, or anger.
Two newly published studies add to what many families are already experiencing.
One, published in PLOS ONE, found that problematic internet use is associated with higher levels of stress, anxiety, depression, and lower overall well-being. The researchers concluded that excessive internet use is becoming an important public health concern that deserves greater attention.
A second, long-term study published in the World Journal of Pediatrics followed more than 500 children from infancy through age 10. Researchers found that higher screen viewing during early childhood was associated with lower academic performance later in childhood, with particularly strong associations around ages one and six. They also found links between greater screen exposure and weaker working memory, an important skill children use for learning, problem solving, and following directions.
Neither study suggests that screens alone determine a child’s future. Both remind us that how children use screens and what screens replace matters.
Today’s children are growing up in a digital world unlike any generation before them. Consider what that looks like:
Most families aren’t trying to eliminate technology. They’re trying to create balance.
The research increasingly suggests it can.
The World Journal of Pediatrics study found that children with greater cumulative screen exposure during early childhood tended to have lower academic achievement later in childhood and weaker working memory.
Working memory is what helps children remember instructions, solve problems, stay organized, and learn new information.
That doesn’t mean every child who spends extra time on screens will struggle in school.
It does remind us that children also need time for reading, movement, conversation, sleep, imaginative play, and relationships. Those experiences build the brain in ways no app can replace.
Parents often think they have a discipline problem.
More often, they have a transition problem.
Games, social media, and short-form videos are designed to hold our attention. When that stimulation suddenly stops, children often struggle to shift gears.
The new PLOS ONE study adds another layer to this conversation by showing that problematic internet use is associated with poorer mental well-being and higher emotional distress. While the study looked broadly at internet use rather than children alone, it reinforces what many families experience: digital habits can influence emotional health, making healthy boundaries and supportive relationships even more important.
At Peace At Home, we encourage parents to look beneath the behavior.
Instead of asking, “How do I stop the tantrum?”
Ask, “What does my child need to make this transition successfully?”
That shift changes everything.
Our experts often remind parents that children borrow our calm before they can find their own. Connection comes before correction.
No. The goal isn’t perfection.
A video chat with grandparents is different from scrolling social media for hours. Creating digital art is different from watching endless short-form videos.
Instead of counting every minute, ask yourself:
Those answers tell you much more than a screen time total.
Parents often search for one rule that solves everything.
There isn’t one.
What works is creating routines that support children through transitions.
At Peace At Home, we encourage parents to:
Research can tell us what children need.
Parents make those changes happen every day.
That’s why we believe supporting parents is one of the best ways to support children.
Every new screen time study seems to ask, “How much screen time is too much?”
A more useful question might be:
Is screen time getting in the way of the experiences my child needs to grow?
Technology has a place in childhood.It just shouldn’t replace the experiences that help children thrive.
What the research tells us: Higher recreational screen use is associated with poorer academic performance, weaker working memory, and lower mental well-being.
What it doesn’t tell us: That screens alone determine a child’s future. Children’s development is shaped by many factors, including relationships, sleep, physical activity, stress, and the support they receive from caring adults.
That’s why Peace At Home focuses on parents. When parents have practical tools to create routines, stay calm during difficult moments, and strengthen connection, children are more likely to develop healthy habits that last. That message is central to your “Breaking the Screen Cycle” campaign.
PLOS ONE (2026). Problematic Internet Use, Mental Health and Well-Being. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0352776
World Journal of Pediatrics (2026). Early childhood screen viewing time and later academic performance and working memory: a longitudinal study. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12519-025-00967-3