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Baby’s Brains Are Ready to Learn: Explore Ways You Enhance Their Experience

December 7, 2025 | JoAnn Robinson

We want to share some important ideas about brain development that will support you to build positive routines and a secure foundation for lifelong learning together with your baby.  Reading your baby’s or toddler’s cues is by now second nature–most of the time. Your connection often feels like a dance: baby shows you what they need, you guide baby to what is needed.  Baby leads, you lead, baby leads, you lead.  But sometimes, you may feel conflicted about who should lead:  Do you know best what baby needs? Or does baby know best?  As parents and babies dance, it’s normal that each makes missteps. Getting it right every time is less important than coming back and trying again. We want to help you do that, armed with key ideas about connecting and learning rooted in early brain development.  

Wondering 

Parents have a deep ability to reflect and wonder: Why does my baby resist sleep when they so clearly need it? How can I help them learn habits of self-calming? Try new foods? Insights about early learning and brain development will help you make choices that promote your child’s developing brain architecture, your confidence as your child’s first teacher, and get you to the goal of eating, learning, playing, and sleeping.

Daily Routines Are The Foundation of Brain Architecture

Simple, everyday parenting behaviors are the powerhouse of your baby’s routines. Relying on you to show the way, this is how they learn “the do’s” of being in your family. What’s your role at this awesome time of development? Are you wondering how your behavior affects baby’s brain development and learning? Your connection with your baby is the secret sauce to making it happen. We at Peace at Home Parenting Solutions will provide key ideas about what’s going on and what often brings out the best of that secret sauce to support learning.

Routines matter so much because learning how we do things in the first few years (and throughout life, really) is based on repetition of actions that feel good and over time, become familiar. For babies and toddlers, when predictable routines include joy and calm they provide a strong motivator for you and your child to feel safe and learn together. When you wonder about how you help your toddler – eat a meal while sitting at the table or calming after a long drive home from childcare – you are taking the first step toward building an intentional positive routine. Ask yourself: Do you have a routine that supports eating new foods? How do you guide your child through daily transitions? Do your routines sometimes work well for you and your child?  Do you enjoy them and feel they are sustainable?  

Connecting Through Your Relationship

Your voice, touch, facial expressions stimulate brain activity and help organize how baby thinks and feels. Research has shown that using a happy, melodic tone not only captures your child’s attention but also improves their memory and helps them feel secure. Your playful and happy voice also calms you. Routines are the road map that guides you and your baby. Build them around what you know about your baby and what your family needs to create balance and a secure foundation needed to learn. 

Build Attention and Self-Control Through Play

Attention and self-control aren’t just good manners—they’re foundational brain functions. These abilities are developed when you:

• Let your child focus on one task at a time
  
• Smile and comment on what they are doing
  
• Use a cheerful tone to guide transitions

Attention and self-control are two brain-based abilities that you can promote through daily routines. These abilities are core to adapting later to classroom learning. Having a playful approach to promoting these abilities is easy to make practicing them fun. Sing songs during transitions, pretend to be silly animals, use toys to model new behaviors: these playful approaches all help wire the brain for focus, problem-solving, and joy.

Respect and Guide Your Child’s Inborn Preferences 

Each child is born with a unique temperament—some are cautious, others adventurous. These inborn styles affect how they explore and respond to challenges. When you notice and affirm your child’s interests, you offer them a story about who they are: You like to touch everything with your busy hands; you like to watch closely before you meet someone new. You promote their resilience, flexibility, and self-confidence when you make sure there are opportunities to satisfy those preferences.

Instead of forcing your agenda, get curious about: What captures their attention? How do they respond when you join their play? Wonder about and imagine play routines that support their preferred way of learning. You often do this automatically. Wondering and voicing what you notice about your child’s temperament can offer a way of understanding challenging moments as well as the very pleasant ones.  Whether it’s a smile, a silly face during a meltdown, or a well-timed “You did it!”—your small moments of connection shape your child’s brain. 

Final Takeaway

You don’t need fancy toys or perfect parenting. Your child’s brain is built through everyday love, laughter, and learning. At Peace At Home Parenting Solutions, we believe in empowering parents with science-backed tools that work in real life.

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