July 28, 2025 | Louise EdwardsThe heightened emotions of the back-to-school season can feel exciting and full of possibility—but let’s be honest, they can also shine a not-so-gentle spotlight on every challenge you and your kid are carrying into the new school year.
Because it’s a fresh start, the temptation to reinvent everything (and everyone!) is real.
I know, because I did it.
Many times.
I’ve kicked off the school year vowing to pack every lunch the night before, sign every permission slip the day it came home, and somehow—magically—convince my kid (who would only read graphic novels) to joyfully engage with every assigned chapter of The Giver.
Spoiler alert: By October, mornings were chaos, the school secretary was leaving voicemails, parent-teacher conferences were LOOMING, and the only books getting real love were the graphic versions of Alex Rider.
Cue frustration, self-doubt, and that sinking sense that I was failing and so was he. I was trying to be someone I’m not (an on-top-of-it-all backpack emptying checklist queen) and trying to turn my kid into someone he wasn’t (yet).
But wait…
What if back-to-school isn’t about fixing or forcing—but about noticing and nurturing?
One of our most-loved articles is about writing a letter to your child’s teacher—sharing who your child is, what helps them thrive, and where they might need support. What if, this year, you wrote that letter to yourself? Or at least consider your kid from the perspective of who they ARE – not what expectations lie on their shoulders or the dreams they embody for you.
Take a moment to reflect on your child’s strengths, quirks, learning style, and emotional needs—not to hand off to someone else, but to keep as a guide for you. A reminder of who your child is and how you can show up for them—not just in August or September, but all year long.
What brings your child to life? What settles them when they’re overwhelmed? And what helps you stay grounded when the chaos inevitably creeps in?
It’s a shift in mindset: less about molding and measuring and more about working with what’s already there. If soccer is bringing stress and fear, how about tai chi? Or quilting? Embrace the graphic novels! It still counts as reading.
You don’t have to solve everything by the first day of school.. You just have to plant what matters, water it with presence, and give it the space—and time—to grow. That’s unconditional love. That’s what turns the flash fuel of “back to school zeal” into whole year stamina.
One of the toughest moments for any parent is watching their child struggle with friendships. It can happen anytime, but those early weeks of school—when everything is new—can make it feel especially intense.
Join us on August 5, 2025 for Help Your Child Make Friends and discover practical tools and emotional insights to support your child’s social confidence—without jumping in to fix it all for them.
And for those with toddlers and preschoolers – join our Founder, Ruth Freeman, and two of our favorite experts, JoAnn Robinson and Cora Megan, on Aug 27, 2025, and learn how play is a great way to prep for their first forays into childcare and preschool. Register now.
Start the school year with clarity, calm, and connection.
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