August 2025 | Louise Edwards
Is your toddler or preschooler about to start childcare, preschool, or kindergarten? You might be noticing big feelings, short attention spans, or boundless energy—and wondering if they’re ready. If someone told you your child needs flashcards or workbooks, take a deep breath. The truth is: play-based learning is one of the most powerful ways to build kindergarten readiness.
Emotional Security Through Play
Play isn’t just fun—it’s how children feel safe and connected. Games like peek-a-boo or pretend play help toddlers build trust and confidence.
Independence & Problem-Solving Skills
Encourage autonomy by letting your child pick between two outfits or pack their own bag. Open-ended play—like building with blocks or pretending to cook—fosters independence and curiosity.
Social and Emotional Growth
Turn-taking games and role-play with toys help kids develop empathy, cooperation, and communication—all key school readiness skills.
Starting preschool or kindergarten can be exciting but challenging. Here’s how to make it smoother:
Manage Your Own Emotions
Children take cues from you. If you feel worried or guilty, acknowledge those feelings and seek support from friends, family, or parent communities.
Build Trust with Teachers and Caregivers
Remember: teachers have guided countless children through this stage. Trusting them helps your child feel secure.
Create Predictable Routines
Kids thrive on consistency. Set clear morning routines: wake up, choose clothes, eat breakfast, pack the bag, and head out together.
Practice Separation in Advance
Visit your child’s classroom before the first day. Take pictures of teachers or play areas to review at home so your child feels familiar with their new environment.
Make Goodbyes Simple and Clear
Two goodbyes are harder than one. Keep farewells quick, confident, and predictable—hold hands, put belongings away, and say, “See you later!”
These activities help children develop the emotional security and social skills they need to thrive in school—without flashcards or formal lessons.
Listen in on Peace At Home Parenting founder Ruth E. Freeman, LCSW, as she talks with child development experts JoAnn Robinson, PhD, and Cora Megan, MA, about practical ways to prepare toddlers and preschoolers for childcare and school—through play, connection, and routines.
After this discussion, you’ll learn how to:
Questions? Email us at solutions@peaceathomeparenting.com
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