When you recognize who “owns” a problem, you can determine who is responsible for solving it. Once you know which problems are yours to solve and which problems are your child’s responsibility to solve, life gets a lot easier.
We often face conflicts when we try to solve our kids’ problems. And most importantly, when teens perceive that they are problem solvers, they are less likely to use substances, less likely to harm themselves or others and they are all around more competent. When you teach your child problem solving skills, you are strengthening their emotional intelligence. This asset will help them succeed in relationships, at work and in most endeavors now and in the future.
Join Peace at Home Experts Ruth Freeman LCSW, and Tanika Eaves PhD, LCSW, IMH-E. Please ask questions and share your experiences during the session. If you would like to request a specific topic to be covered, please email us ahead of time at solutions@peaceathomeparenting.com